There Is No Glory in Easy

Why do we even try? When the barriers are so high and the odds are so low?

Why don’t we just pack it in and go home? It would be so, so much easier…

It’s because in the end there’s no glory in easy. No one remembers easy. They will remember the pain, the tears, the struggle… We are going to have some wins and some losses and we are going to make a whole bunch of mistakes, but isn’t that what life is all about? Learning from our mistakes?

Denial.Lonely girl looking out of apartment window

Anger.

Bargaining.

Depression.

Acceptance.

These are the stages of waking up… And mostly we have no idea where we think we are, but most certainly we would be happier if we would realize that what we should do is actually what we are doing.

We are changing. Everyone is. But we only notice it when we change in different directions and don’t seem to have the same ways of understanding. Grow apart from people who don’t grow. We are free to do it. And there’s nothing to lose. If we were supposed to be together, we’ll meet again. I promise. I mean, the Universe is promising. 🙂

We have to look for the best in people, for our own sake. And we have to leave them better than we found them. So let’s educate ourselves! Confusion and misunderstanding is primarily caused by ignorance. So we need to find a good teacher. We should meditate (more). Know ourselves better. Learn that being happy has nothing to do with anyone else. It’s a very personal thing and we don’t need to explain it.

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