I asked him if he ever loved me. 

What a strange question, he said. Please indulge me, I insisted. I am. You what? I love you. It doesn't stop just because we can't be together. Awwww. Wish you could've said that four years ago - it would've spared me from a lot of breakdowns and shitty decisions! Shitty decisions are important too. You…

The Jigsaw Puzzle

We’re being spoiled with choice. There are 7,6 Billion people out there and we stick to the one we’ve met in college. Because of commitment, because of history, because of comfort and because of the fears and the demons screaming: what if you won’t find anyone as nice and supporting? Who else would accept all…

Date Someone Who Will Break Your Heart

You should date someone who treats you like shit and eventually makes you feel the shittiest you’ve ever been.    No, I am not sarcastic. We are all scared. Scared of being rejected, scared of being lied to, cheated on and hurt in ways we could only imagine. Mostly because we’ve seen it in the…

killer way (not) to kill a crush

I couldn’t move. We were standing in the middle of that one place that I always fantasize to “trash” with an extreme desire and passion for the human love. It wasn't the elevator. I don't think we were hugging but our bodies were placed tight one onto the other and it felt like two halves put…

Ghost With Grace

I don't love him anymore. (us at some point of our relationships) When you hear that voice, you know it's gonna happen. Sooner or later, someone will have a broken heart and, even if you know it might be him, you can't stop thinking about how shitty you gonna feel. If you are a needy,…

Just Another Fairy Tale

Once upon a time, in the land of the happiest people in the world, there was a charming gnome who, except 70 virgins, a driving license, and self-esteem, had everything a man could possibly want. He was living alone in his big castle, feeling happily unloved and scared of all kind of things  (diseases, stronger men, smarter people,…

What Is Dating About?

Millennials. Individuals reaching adulthood around the turn of the 21st century. According to Howe and Strauss (1991), millennials are born between 1982 and 2004. Therefore, I and, most likely you too, are part of Generation Y or the Net Generation, the demographic cohort that directly follows Generation X. Being the last generation born in the…